Indifference or Love - Where Do You Fall With Your Ex

Published: 18th May 2009
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What does it mean when he says, "I think we should just be friends"? The answer to that question depends on what he does after he makes that claim.

You can determine his feelings by realizing there is a spectrum of emotions; kind of like the game at the fair that shows how strong you are. However, instead of showing how strong you are, this scale shows his feelings towards you. On the bottom is indifference because that requires no effort to get to that point but on the top is a strong emotion - in this case love. In order to make that bell ring with love requires a lot of effort.

So how can you tell if your ex is putting effort towards you? It's a matter of how he acts. Words are fruitless without a motion behind them. I can say I'm going to travel the world but until I actually do something, my words are meaningless. It's the same with how your ex feels about you. If he still feels that he loves you, he's going to put some effort forward to prove that love. If he says he wants to be friends but goes out of his way to make sure you're still has happy as you were when the two of you had been dating, his actions contradict his words and he might just be confused. If he says he wants to be friends and doesn't call you or put forth any effort to see you, his inaction shows his true feelings.

He doesn't act differently than what he says as a torture towards you, it's more likely he's confused and needs a push in the right direction.

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